Jimbo's Jots

I’ve done my fair share of weddings over the past 20 years of my ministry life. One of the most popular texts that is request for me to share in the wedding ceremony is 1 Corinthians 13 – commonly known as The Love Chapter. I’ve even heard people say that you should take the word “love” out in verses 4-7 and replace your own name to see how you measure up. Or you can put God’s name in place of “love” because in John’s first letter he says that “God is love.” (1 John 4:7)

Here is what I share with the couple about this text:

1. Love is more than what we say (v.1) – we can say “I love you” all of the time, but if there is no action behind our words, then those words can become empty. At the same time, we can show patience, kindness, truthfulness with our words.
2. Love is more than what we have (v.2) – sometimes our possessions take over our lives. People will stand in lines for the latest and greatest toy. As much as we want things, we can buy love. When we love as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5), it’s not what we have, but what we give up. So we are not rude, envious, boastful, or keep records.
3. Love is more than what we give (v.3) – This is bit harder for us to understand. We give gifts on special occasions. Couples will give a ring to each other on their wedding day. Again, if our gifts are not given with a heart of love, they are just garbage (Paul’s words, not mine). What we can give in love is protection, hope and never giving up.

In living lives of love towards our spouse, our kids see this. In living lives of love targeting our kids, they are empowered. In return, we demonstrate the love of God because we have been loved first.

Be blessed and be a blessing!!